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With influencers and bloggers always pointing out which designer pieces we MUST have in this year’s sale – you know, things marked down from $superexpensive to $stillexpensive – the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale is always something that I look at from afar. But just because people seize the opportunity to add coveted designer items to their wardrobes doesn’t mean that there aren’t “regular people” items just as seize-worthy. Below you’ll find the items in the sale that are on my realistic wish list – grab them before they sell out!
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I suppose the BEST time to post my summer vacation must-haves would be before the first week of summer but here we are already at the beginning of July(because time flies when you’re wrangling kids all day having fun) so there’s no time like the present. Because we all know there is a lot more summer to be had, AND, unless your summer is front-loaded, there are vacations to go on. I use every item on this list pretty much daily, at home and while traveling (and, surprise, most of them I use all year round). Great news: there is something for everyone on this list! (Spoiler alert – the last one is the only way I remain somewhat sane while the kids roam the neighborhood.)
Think minimizing exposure to sun + minimizing exposure to toxins + minimzing cost. EWG gives ThinkSport the best rating possible, which means while I can’t prevent the kids from eating an occasional bag of birthday cake mini muffins, I can protect them from the sun by using a sunscreen with ingredients that pose a low health concern.
I have a few beltbags (I ended up getting the Madewell one on sale that I mentioned in this post!). They are just so utilitarian, OF COURSE they’re on the summer vacation must-haves list! For the casual days when I’m just heading out for a bit I use this one from Herschel Supply Company and I also have the larger one for when I’m heading out for a few hours (i.e., music festivals!). It fits everything, there’s nothing hanging on your shoulder, and comes in a ton of fun colors!
The greatest travel pillow that ever lived. I purchased this for my Coachella trip last year after doing a decent amount of research. Why, you ask, did I do so much research for a neck pillow? 1) for some reason the standard neck pillow doesn’t quite cut it – maybe because I have a longish neck? and 2) taking a red-eye back from a three-day festival to three young kids REQUIRES a decent night’s sleep. Since I got this I take it on car trips, plane trips, and I actually sleep with it every night at home. This pillow can be worn in so many different ways and is made out of bamboo material so it’s soft, breathable, and cool. Bonus: it is washer/dryer safe!
Anytime I get a new lip balm, it gets half-used and then gets melted, lost, or eaten by children. This stuff though… I have one in the bathroom, one in my bag and one in the car AT ALL TIMES. It protects against sun, wind, extreme temps, and treats dry, irritated, and cracked lips. It actually penetrates your lips instead of just sitting on the surface like a wax until you wipe/lick it off; your lips are soft and smooth without having to reapply a million times. My favorite is the lemon and shea butter flavor.
You know you’re a mom when you gush over adhesive bandages… But seriously, these are the best ones I’ve EVER used. The pads are antibacterial and super absorbent, they are made with super tough fabric so they last on active kids, and they come in some pretty fun colors. I get the variety pack at our local grocery store – it has every shape and size you could ever possibly need and if you get creative with a sharpie, you’re two year old will believe you when you tell her the light blue is an Elsa one.
Next on the list of summer vacation must-haves is the Surf Infusion spray by Bumble and Bumble. This is not your typical sea salt spray; it is infused with oil to help prevent over-drying so you get beachy waves without looking like the scarecrow from the Wizard of Oz. Definitely one to keep on hand, especially for those of us with color-treated or processed hair.
Another recommendation from sister Jackie! These eye drops are perfect for after long days at the beach, or after long nights out. It’s simple: one drop in each eye gets the whites whiter.
This list of summer vacation must-haves wouldn’t be complete without a waterproof mascara. As a lover of the regular Better Than Sex mascara, I knew the waterproof version wouldn’t disappoint. The wand is key to creating voluminous lashes that stay put even at the gym or pool!
With so much polarization surrounding kids and technology, its refreshing to find a piece of tech that I can get down with. When we moved into the neighborhood I was hesitant to let the boys roam about, especially to places where I couldn’t see them. Enter the Gizmo Watch. It is 4G LTE compatible and supports two-way voice calls and messaging to/from up to nine numbers that you program through the GizmoHub app. The app also provides functions such as reminder scheduling, fitness and activity monitoring, and location tracking. It makes calling the boys home for dinner a breeze. My favorite part? I can pull up the map on the app and see exactly where they are in real time. Anytime, anywhere.
I hope you find this list of summer vacation must-haves useful – now carry on with your summertime fun!
As much as I love to read, I find it hard to keep up on the “it” books to read each season. So while some of these are not fresh off the presses, they are (so far) wonderful reads that I am glad I started. (And yes, I read multiple books at once – that’s who I am).Without further ado, here is a list of the 7 books I am reading this summer (in no particular order), and why they should be on your list of books to read this summer, too!
This book is a fictionalized account about (and by) an Australian heroin addict and convicted bank robber who escapes prison and travels to Bombay, India. So far, it’s a sensory overload, in a GREAT way – I really enjoy writing that not only makes you see things, but hear and smell and taste and feel them, too. The way the author describes each moment really puts you in the streets of Bombay in the late 70s, but it doesn’t go overboard such that you would lose the story. This is a great book for when you have alone time (HA) and minimal interruptions. (Buy on Amazon)
I received this as gift for mother’s day from my mother in law (thanks, Niecy!), so it was an easy add to my list of books to read this summer. It’s a laugh-out-loud, cry-out-loud, feel-good, honest take on real life: marriage, parenting, being a woman, etc. It’s a great read for the family vacation to the beach – you know, an easy book to pick up in between yelling at kids to stop throwing sand and reapplying sunscreen to sandy wet squirmy toddlers. (Buy on Amazon)
I’ve been super into podcasts lately (especially this one) and the name of this book kept coming up. So far, this book has opened my eyes to the already-existing abundance all around and to the concept that the vibes one puts out will be the vibes one gets back. As soon as I started reading it I felt a difference. It basically lights a spark under your ass and makes you feel likelets you KNOW you can do ANYTHING. This is one of those books I can’t read fast enough and I can foresee reading over and over and over. Bonus: everything it talks about I’ve found super applicable to mom-ing and raising kids, too. (Buy on Amazon)
I have yet to start this book, but from the summary on the inside of the book jacket (and the many, many rave reviews) I know it’ll be amazing. It’s a memoir that recounts the life of the author, who was born and raised by survivalists in the mountains of Idaho, and her journey to get “educated”. And while I haven’t experienced specifically what the author writes about, the message is universal and one that everyone can connect with their own story. I’m sure mine is not the only list of books to read this summer it is on. (Buy on Amazon)
Somehow I woke up one day and this was downloaded on iBooks and I have no idea how it happened. I had heard of the book before, sure, but to be honest it wasn’t on my short list of books to read (I don’t love reading stories to which I know the ending). But since it was there and since I’m a pretty big fan of history I started reading it and it’s been a really cool read. The story of Louis Zamperini is in and of itself amazing, and having the “personal” and real connection to 1940s athletics mixed with wartime makes it feel more approachable than a group of facts strung together. A great way to learn. (Buy on Amazon)
I didn’t find this book during my search for books to read this summer, but you know that saying – one tends to find things when one is not looking for them. I stumbled upon this book while doing some research for another post on kids and perspective (stay-tuned!) and it drew me in for two reasons. 1) it calls for a focus on the parts of the book we see but often overlook to an extent (artwork, book jacket, etc.) and 2) it focuses on reading with children as a two-way interaction. And it is really opening my eyes to the time we allot in our home for reading with the kids.
We encourage a lot of independent reading now that the boys are older, but almost every night we read books as a family. The Whole Book Approach has broadened my intention for this time together and also in my own reading (i.e., reading using a kindle or iBooks changes the “whole book” experience). Definitely something to integrate to encourage summer learning (like the Summer Bingo Boards)! (Buy on Amazon)
“Jackie’s Pick” – My sister, Jackie, who is Queen of the North an English teacher and literature enthusiast, adds this final recommendation to the books to read this summer. This book is “an exciting and complex fictional story about two diverse plot lines that eventually come together in the end”. She recommends it “for teens through adults, especially those who enjoy historical references to the culture of America in the south in the 1950s”. (Buy on Amazon)
What’s on your list of books to read this summer? Tell me in the comments! Happy reading!
Two summers ago, when I was feeling especially motivated to make sure everything Benny had learned in school didn’t fall out of his head during the summer, I created these Summer Learning Bingo Boards. And every year since, as the end of the school year approaches, the boys ask if we are doing them again.
To say that the children are equally motivated by knowledge retention (i.e., summer learning) as I am would be a stretch (when someone gets “bingo” they can choose from a bag of matchbox cars or something similar, so there’s a tangible reward) but completing reading/writing/math activities – and a few chores sprinkled in, just for funsies – is something they don’t fight me on.
And THAT, folks, is a huge win in my book (even if they are being bribed).
The best part? I spent zero dollars making them. Using random pieces of cardboard and leftover supplies from various craft projects and my scrap-booking days, I was able to piece together a functional bingo board that will serve us for as long as the boys are willing. (I imagine I’ll need to make Em one soon!) The boys made name signs to put on each board and I used 3 x 3 inch scrap paper for the squares. I used photo corners to mount each square so that they can be removed when completed (and changed out completely as needed).
Each square includes activities ranging from “complete a math worksheet” (we print out at a stack of both math and reading worksheets at the beginning of the summer – this site has so many to choose from) to “help mommy or daddy with a chore inside/outside” to “pick a new art medium and create something”.
I try to include things that they generally enjoy – the things they came home from school excited about – but also things that I know they need to work on (hence the “play a game with your brother” square.
I should have written “play a game NICELY with your brother”…). It may sound counterintuitive, but I limit the boys to 3 squares a day to prevent them from rushing through activities just for the end result. When they’ve completed a few bingos, we switch up the cards and start again (I have a bag of extra clipped to each board).
I cranked out this summer’s squares in 20 minutes while waiting for the boys to get home from their last day of 2nd grade and Kindergarten (insert cry face emoji) and we are ready to rock. Although I haven’t mentioned to them that I have yet to get the “treat” bag… oops! Cheers to a relaxing summer!
I don’t know if it’s just the change in the weather that gives me the itch to shop, or if there is some sort of subliminal marketing happening (probably the latter), but here we are again verging on summer and I am ready to sport my typical denim cutoffs and tees – but I’m also excited about what new fun things I can add to my wardrobe – summer wardrobe essentials!
As fun as it sounds, the children DO NOT love coming shopping.
And to tell you the truth, I’m not one to spend hours going from store to store trying stuff on. Putting pants on is one of my least favorite things so putting them on over and over again is not my idea of fun (note to self: don’t wear pants to shop for summer wardrobe essentials). Most of the time, I order things online (or just pick them up in person) from brands/stores that are tried and true, try them on, and then return what doesn’t work. (Because of this I’m slowly starting to move through my phobia of the post office. Well, actually, no I’m not… I just found my happy place: PostMan Plus.)
I recently discovered Amazon Prime Wardrobe and I decided to give it a shot. Here’s how it works: you order items, you try them on within the 7-day try-on period, you send back what you don’t like, and you pay for what you keep. You need an amazon prime subscription and you must be the primary account holder, but you can send the items to whatever address so I just logged on as my mom and had the order sent to me (“Thanks Gram-Gram”). There is a pretty big selection of things you can order through this program, however the size selection is limited… keep that in mind. Something may show up in the search under “amazon prime wardrobe available” but once you select your size, it may not actually be available.
But anyway, here is what I’ll be wearing on repeat this summer, complete with a few try-on selfies, details on why I like the items, and product links when available. My summer wardrobe essentials!
Before you scroll, here are my stats so you can have a more informed picture of how stuff will fit you based on how it fits me (I used this to measure with guidance from this website and this website):
I’m a sucker for graphic tees; well, actually tees in general, which is probably why they make up 80% of my wardrobe. And probably why it’s almost always what you will see me wearing. But alas, I don’t always wear tees, so there is one “non-tee” summer top here.
Leopard Tank (Ascot & Hart)This is one of those tops that looks great on the model, and then you get it and you think “wow, this is a lot looser than I thought” and then it ends up being fantastic. I’m wearing a small and the fit is great. It can easily be dressed up or down. I’m braless in the pics but did wear a black strapless bra with it and it worked. (Jeans are Cali Denim from Madewell – these are a few years old but they have similar ones now!)
Boob tee (Never Fully Dressed)I have purchased a few things from here and have loved every single thing (which is great since it’s based in the UK and I imagine returns would be hellish). It comes in one size only and the fit is looser, except for the sleeves. While not fitted, the sleeves are a little more snug than the shirt. I’m thinking about cutting it to a cropped length but I love it at it’s “regular” length as well. Bonus: a portion of the proceeds from each purchase go towards the charity ‘Mind’. See more on the website. (Shorts are featured below!)
Mamacita tee (The Bee and The Fox) This is not a new purchase, but I wear it so much I may get another one to rotate into service! I’m wearing a size medium and the material is more of a knit so it’s the good kind of fitted. I would buy every color in this if they had more! I have a couple other tees from The Bee and The Fox and they are just as rad (although they are more of a regular tee fit). (Skirt is featured below!)
Good Vibes Tee (Armani Exchange) This tee was part of the Amazon Wardrobe haul. The quality is great – the “good vibes” is a textured appliqué (I don’t know how else to describe it other than “soft carpet”) and the tee itself is super soft and thin (but not cheap thin). This is a medium and feel a little too large so it went back, but I would consider purchasing a size small. (Jeans are featured below!)
Northside Vintage Tee (Madewell) I bought these tees because they were on sale, and my intention is to get something screen printed on them (maybe something GOT related like these) but for now I wear them plain. They are your basic tee, but with a nicer finish (that one would expect from Madewell), and they come in a bunch of different colors.
Future State Wave Tee (Urban Outfitters) This tee is relaxed with a drapey back, and has the iconic tsunami graphic by Japanese artist Katsushika Hokusai on the front. I got a size small and it’s a loose fit.
Bottoms + Onesies
I hate shorts. There, I said it. Give me any other type of “bottom” and I’ll most likely choose it over shorts ANY DAY OF THE WEEK. If I didn’t think my health would suffer in the mid-atlantic melting zone, I’d probably never wear them. It’s very rare that I find a pair that I feel good about. But when I do, live in them (and I thank the shorts gods).
Levi’s Women’s 501 Shorts, Worth the Wait Another item from the Amazon Wardrobe haul – and one I kept! Like I mentioned, shorts are weird for me because I have a long torso, a small waist and athletic legs. These are a 29 – which is not my “regular” denim size (if there is such a thing) – and they are a dream. I am wearing them slouchy, but because they are Levi’s the denim is thicker and so they feel structured at the same time. And at only $35 they were a no-brainer!
Leopard Shorts (SheIn) Another leopard print item – this was sort of a impulse buy because I was getting a few bathing suits and I liked the print – but for $6 I was willing to take the risk. These are a medium and they are suuuuper flowy. They are comfortable and work great as a bathing suit coverup.
Leopard Skirt (Never Fully Dressed) More leopard print… This is the perfect summer skirt to wear on a date night or over a bathing suit at the beach. The material is light and silky, but not cheap, so it’s perfect for dressing up on a hot summer night. I’m wearing a small, but it’s basically a sarong so, other than the length, any size could probably work for anybody. This skirt comes in some amazing other prints too (with coordinating tops) – check it out!
Daily Ritual Romper This was another find on Amazon Prime. I originally ordered the olive in a size 6 but because I have a longer torso the 6 was a little too snug so I opted for the size 8 (in pink). It’s an easy thing to throw on to go shopping or run errands and would look super cute with a belt bag (like this one – on sale right now!). The only downside is that this tencel wrinkles easily, but the comfort factor outweighs that for me. There are several iterations of this romper – with and without drawstrings, with and with out sleeves, jumpsuit versions, etc. – all at suuuuuper reasonable prices $30-$40! Check them out!
BB Dakota Got You Covered Overalls This was probably one of my favorite Amazon Prime Wardrobe items. It is most likely not everyone’s favorite but I love the vintage vibes it brings! This is a size 6 and is a good fit as the straps are adjustable (and therefore accommodating for my long torso). I recently wore it on a family day trip to the Catoctin Wildlife Preserve and it was comfortable all day – again, with the tencel, it is flexible/giving and cool in the hot summer months (especially for those of us who don’t like to wear shorts!).
Strappy Jumpsuit (Target) The stripes caught my eye on this jumpsuit during one of my recent Target trips. It’ll work perfectly as a beach cover up this summer! The reviews are mixed – with most of the negative ones saying that it’s way too big – but it’s meant to be drape-y and full. I’m wearing a size small and I cinched the sides a bit so the top would fit tighter.
Brando Baggies (Ascot&Hart) I have a hard time with girlfriend/boyfriend/baggie jeans and have given a looootttt of different brands a try over the years. These are a size 27 and are the first pair that are actually baggie where they need to be, albeit a little lower waist than I’m used to (think “hipslung”). Definitely a good addition to the denim I currently have which are all high/mid waisted. The particular ones I’m wearing are sold out but these ones look awesome and are cropped!
Bathing suits
So I bought a one piece for the first time since I can’t remember when. I’m talking, like, 20+ years. And I’m obsessed with it (I bought two more colors)! I also bought some two pieces that I’m equally into – especially because they were about $12 each!
Strappy Back One Piece (American Eagle) I should know by now to listen to my bestie when it comes to suggesting an article of clothing – she has been telling me how amazing this swimsuit is for a couple months now… and she was so right! It’s not too conservative (which is why I was hesitant to get a one piece in the first place) and allows for the wrangling of three kids around the pool without any “mishaps”. This is a medium/ regular length but it comes in long as well. Because the straps tie in the back I was able to adjust them to get away with the regular length. I love it so much I ordered it in olive and red!
Shein Bikinis For $11 – $13 per bathing suit, I was willing to order these in the off chance that a) the fabric wouldn’t feel too cheap, b) the patterns wouldn’t look cheap, and c) that they would actually fit… And I was pleasantly surprised! I got all mediums and the bottoms fit well (some maybe a smidge on the snug side, but I can handle it) and the tops fit great (some maybe a smidge on the loose side, but again, I can handle it). Links to each below!
Here’s a mix of little add-ons that I picked up along the way. (side note: when I buy “accessory jewelry” it’s almost always earrings, so that’s what you’re gonna get here).
Earrings
Hair accessories
Shoes
What are you most excited about wearing this season?? Cheers to a fun and relaxing summer!
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Besides the always-fresh produce at killer prices, these are the items that keep me going back to our local organic market, Mom’s Market.
(If you don’t have a Mom’s or something similar, GREAT NEWS: you can get some of these things on Amazon or Target, although it would be more cost efficient to find it locally.) Here are the best foods to try from your organic market:
1. Safe Catch Tuna
As a pescatarian, seafood is a main protein source for me (canned tuna probably 3-4 times a month) and as such it’s important that I am mindful of the amount of mercury consumed. Mercury levels vary by fish, with canned tuna having some of the highest levels of mercury (go here for a helpful chart). Safe Catch uses sustainable catching practices and is the only brand that tests each tuna to a limit that is three times lower than the FDA action limit. Tastes great, too!
2. Siete Foods Grain-free Tortillas
If you follow me on Instagram, you know our whole family loves these grain free tortillas from Siete Foods. Our favorite are the almond flour tortillas, but they also have tortillas made with cassava flour, chickpea flour, cashew flour, and cassava + chia. Not only are they better for you and your gut (I’m not a nutritionist; do a little research, get educated, and make a decision for your family) but they actually taste better and add flavor to what we are eating instead of acting simply as a vehicle. We use them to replace regular flour tortillas in meals like tacos, wraps, and my world famous “cheesy eggy roll-ups” (scrambled egg, cheese, turkey, all rolled up together).
3. Siete Foods Grain-free Tortilla Chips
Siete Foods has a plethora of additional products worth exploring, including these grain free tortilla chips. These are no “Tostitos” but they satisfy that salty crunch for me. The sea salt, ranch, lime, and sal y limón varieties are my favorite – we have yet to try the Nacho and Fuego flavors!
4. Wild Kombucha
After having tried Kombucha in the past and not loving it, I wasn’t looking to try a new kind. But, as it happens, one always finds things when one isn’t looking for it – enter Mobtown Fermentation‘s Wild Kombucha. (If you aren’t aware of the benefits of Kombucha, check out this article.) This kombucha isn’t overwhelmingly acidic – some varieties are a little more tart than others but still super tasty (i.e., the Tart Cherry Ginger) – it’s akin to delicately flavored bubble water. And it’s not “chunky” which for me is always a turn-off (obviously the kombucha isn’t clear, but there’s no chewing involved). The one downside? It’s a Baltimore-based company so unless you live in the area you can’t get it yet.
5. Tessemae’s Ranch Dressing
More often than not I prefer to make my own salad dressing but when I use the bottled stuff it’s almost always Tessemae‘s and specifically this Ranch Dressing. I would not have considered myself a “ranch” person before – I didn’t eat it on salad or dip veggies in it or put it on pizza – but this stuff is JUST SO GOOD. Now I’ll put it on just about anything. The best part? It’s all natural, dairy free, sugar free and gluten free – no artificial preservatives (whole30 approved and keto friendly, if you’re into that). And, don’t worry, this ranch dressing is just one of the MANY products Tessemae’s offers. You gotta check them out.
6. Coconut Aminos
So I kiiiiind of feel like I’m giving away my secret weapon with this one: Coconut Aminos. It’s advertised as a soy sauce alternative but the flavor is more mild and has a hint of sweetness. In addition to being an accompaniment to sushi, it adds another layer of flavor to things like sauces and stirfrys, but I use it mostly for salad dressings (stay tuned!).
7. Swapples
Imagine if a bagel and a waffle had a baby – and this baby was gluten-, grain-, wheat-, dairy-free (among other things). That’s a swapple. Most of the time I try to avoid processed or pre-made foods – so when time is limited and I need something I feel good about eating (and feel good AFTER eating) I reach for these. There are sweet and savory options and limitless ways to prepare them – our family’s favorite: fry a couple eggs and put them over a crispy Everything. Try the Tomato Basil as a base for mini pizzas, the Garlicky greens with a bowl of tomato soup, or the Cinnamon or Blueberry with your coffee in the morning or to satisfy a sweet tooth in the evening. You can usually get these online through the Swapples website, but they are currently closed while they transition to a new fulfillment center.
8. Alden’s Organic Strawberry Round Sammies
This list wouldn’t be complete without something sweet. These Strawberry Round Sammies from Alden’s Organic are simply delicious. The ice-cream is smooth and soft, even straight from the freezer (which means the kids don’t need to wait to bite into it) and the flavor brings to mind those strawberry shortcake ice-cream bars I used to have as a kid. I wish there was more than four in a box. The best part is that you can get them pretty much anywhere!
I hope you have a chance to try some of these. Got anything to recommend to add to the list of the best foods to try NOW?? Let me know below!
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You know those family outings that aren’t planned in advance, that are just spur-of-the-moment, “look at this place I found on the internet”, “cool, we should go” spontaneities? The days that aren’t perfectly planned, but just happen to go perfectly? (note to self: maybe I’m on to something here…) For us, they always seem to happen when we least expect (read: when they are needed the most). As a family of five with three overscheduled super busy kids we rarely have a day with nothing planned. And when we do, it quickly fills with impromptu gatherings with friends, checking things off of our grown-up responsibilities list, and the like.
But, on the tail end of a recent long weekend, we found ourselves WITHOUT PLANS.
So we packed up the minivan and drove to the Catoctin Wildlife Preserve. We have visited our fair share of zoos and this is by far our favorite (so far!). Located about 20 minutes north of Frederick, MD, it is a convenient daytrip destination for families in Baltimore, Washington, D.C., and Pennsylvania, and anyone visiting the area.
The quantity, variety, and proximity of the animals on exhibit coupled with the availability of actual animal interaction really set this place a part from the others.
The heavily forested (and so, mostly shaded) grounds are organized into global regions that are connected by mostly dirt and gravel paths – we brought the stroller for our two year old and it was only contested a few times by rocks, tree roots, and muddy spots (she walked 90% of the time anyway, which is a feat in and of itself). There were also several patrons using wheelchairs successfully. I don’t know how many people visit the park daily, but it did not feel crowded — we had our own “private” viewing at nearly all the exhibits.
Each enclosure we encountered had clearly visible and mostly active animals within surprisingly close proximity (some were snoozing, but still easy to see!).
Whether behind a fence or glass, every single animal was up close and personal. Beyond the “look, don’t touch” animals, there were several stations set up for animal interaction – feeding, petting, and even riding. Bring cash and quarters – the animal food is dispensed from those crank machines that sell candy in the grocery stores and the camel ride and feathered feeding enclosure were a few dollars each. They also have animal encounters and keeper talks scheduled (we will be going back to see some of these!). The kids were never bored which is probably why they didn’t even think to complain about the walking or fight over the stroller seat, which makes for a happy family day trip. (For reference, they are 2, 6, and 7).
Guests are welcomed to bring a picnic lunch and coolers inside the park (make sure to leave glass at home) and there are plenty of clean places to sit and eat. We stopped in Frederick, MD for lunch on our way (partially because it was so last-minute and we had nothing in the house but mostly because we love Frederick, MD in general – definitely a great family destination!) and evidently there are places to eat near the park in Thurmont (get your hands stamped for same day reentry). We did stumble upon one food vendor inside the park serving a variety of hot food that took Venmo! After nearly three hours of exploring we were ready to hit the road but I can envision spending longer if we plan it well.
For a family of five (Emily was under 3 and so was free), admission was around $80 and we spent around $20 in cash/quarters in the park. We made the mistake of going into the gift shop – if you don’t plan on getting any souvenirs, avoid it or you may have to deal with a brief meltdown because our kids wanted PRETTY MUCH EVERYTHING. Memberships and birthday parties are available, too (details are on the website). We will definitely be going back and will probably combine it with an overnight in Frederick because, like I mentioned earlier, we love it there and there are a lot of other places to explore in Thurmont.
Check out the rest of our pictures below! I was able to get a lot of pictures before my phone died… but one of them was NOT a family picture (because #storyofourlives).
Have suggestions for family outings near OR far? Let me know in the comments below! We’re always looking for ways to entertain our rowdy crew in the summer.
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Guys. I’m not a licensed esthetician. I’m not a medical professional. But I am a busy mom driven by a desire to get spa-ish treatments at home for a yardsale-ish prices. Keep reading to find out how I do dermaplaning at home!
What?
Exfoliation using a sharp blade to remove the fine peach fuzz (or vellus hair) and dead skin cells on the surface of your face.
Why?
Leaves skin feeling smoother and looking brighter/healthier
Reduces breakouts and keeps skin cleaner by removing vellus hair that traps dirt and oil
Allows skin to absorb skincare products more effectively
Creates a smoother surface for makeup application so you get a more flawless/airbrushed look
Why?
Assess your skin and see what works for you! I do it about once a month when I notice my skin looking textured and dull, and the peach fuzz is growing back.
No, your hair will not grow back thicker/coarser/darker – it’s physiologically impossible (unless it’s due to an underlying medical condition, says the Mayo Clinic).
Before you try it: if you have sensitive skin and/or if you have breakouts, use caution or better yet, leave it to the professionals.
This is a no-brainer. If you are sloughing off dry/ dead skin, you want the surface to be clean to start.
Step 2: Exfoliate
For the dermaplaning to be most effective, I gently exfoliate prior. Any dead skin that doesn’t come off during this step will be removed during the dermaplaning.
Step 3: Moisturize
This acts as the “shaving cream” – I add a little water to make it slicker. It’s important to use a high quality moisturizer (like the Milk Moisturizer) because it will be the first thing that comes in contact with your freshly dermaplaned skin.
Step 4: Dermaplane
Position the blade at a 45-degree angle to the surface of your face and slowly slide it down your face while applying even pressure. The blade is sharp, so use caution. Rinse and repeat. Continue dermaplaning anywhere you need it, adding water and/or moisturizer as needed for a smooth shave. Once you are finished add more moisturizer if necessary.
Need a visual on dermaplaning at home? Watch this video!
You know those moments that you think back on and wish they had gone a certain way? It’s not necessarily regret, but a sort of frustration and understanding that, with the knowledge you now have, being on the “other side” of it, it could have gone so differently. It’s the moments that were within your control (and/or the control of the people around you) that you yearn for, to do it over again.
The birth of my first son is that moment for me. Well, not the actual birth but the hours, days, weeks, and months that followed (and, perhaps, the months leading up to it).
This story has a happy ending. Other than coming two weeks early with the cord around his neck there were no complications. Benny is a healthy and happy almost 8 year old. But the moments immediately after his birth were lonely. I barely remember holding him. What I do remember is being in bed in the dimly lit hospital room, half reclined and half naked in the bed, with numb legs and a numb mind, just waiting. Waiting for the doctors to finish repairing me. Waiting or the feeling to come back to my lower half. Waiting for the chance to nurse my son. Waiting for the transfer to my post partum room. Waiting for… something else? With no baby in my arms. For hours. I didn’t ask questions. I thought it was how it was supposed to be. It’s still unclear why I only had mere seconds to hold my newborn son after his birth. (It was only after having two more children and experiencing the moments after birth that I became conscious of what could have been with Benny.)
I remember trying to nurse with a room full of visitors after finally being reunited with Benny: tears rolling down my face as I unsuccessfully attempted to fulfill the most basic human need for my son; my husband propping up a pillow to block the view of us in the bed instead of asking the visitors to leave; nurses squeezing and pulling and making comments about my body. And I realize now that in that moment I had failed myself.
In the weeks after we left the hospital, I continued to experience failure: the failure to breastfeed (because I had assumed it would just happen and so I wasn’t prepared); the failure to speak up for what I wanted (for me and my son, for our new little family, for boundaries that needed to be set); the failure of my support system (admittedly to no fault of their own, they were just as unprepared as I was); the failure to ask for help because I didn’t know I needed it.
And in all this failure, I sunk into my darkness of postpartum depression.
But my darkness wasn’t filled with sadness and crying. It wasn’t filled with disconnectedness and a lack of love for my son. It was filled with anxiety. It was filled with anger and distrust and paranoia. I felt like a failure as a mother because I couldn’t nurse my son, so I compensated with being in control of every second of his being. I felt like everyone was trying to take my baby from me, so I very rarely allowed visitors. Because I rarely wanted to leave the house, tension rose between my husband and me and furthered my isolating thoughts. And so everyone was against me; it was just Benny and me against the world.
Some women say that they knew something wasn’t “right” which prompted them to seek help. Women experiencing postpartum depression in a second or subsequent birth after a “normal” experience may possibly have the awareness to recognize that. But this was my first time, and I didn’t. I thought I was being rational. I didn’t know it was supposed to be different. I didn’t think I needed help. I went to my post partum check up and answered the questions: “do you feel ‘sad’ or unable to connect with your newborn?” – NO. And no one stepped in and said, “this may not be normal, let’s go together and talk to someone”. And so our tiny family suffered in our dawning moments. And I suffered silently in my darkness.
My judgment was so clouded that I was not aware that I needed help, but I am not placing blame entirely on the people that surrounded me. Most people look for textbook signs of depression when identifying postpartum depression. But it’s not just sadness, continuous crying, and disconnectedness. It’s anger and paranoia. It’s being emotionally irrational, being controlling and feeling out of control at the same time. We don’t necessarily look for anger or irritably or paranoid thoughts. And so I had to claw and climb my way out of this hole by myself. And it was so painful. And it took a long, long time.
If you are pregnant, or planning to be, I urge you to find out what healthy postpartum behavior and emotions look like.
Open a dialogue between you, your partner and support system, and your doctor and/or therapist in the months leading up so that if you cannot see past your darkness, and you don’t know to reach out, your partner can stand up for you and with you.
Generally speaking, there aren’t a whole lot of things I mourn for and I am thankful for that, but to say that I’m not still forlorn for what was, and lost in longing for what could have been, would be a lie. Because I am. Some days I am filled with sorrow for the moments of missed opportunity. But at the same time I am grateful for those moments and for my subsequent clarity. I am also grateful for a wonderful and supportive partner in my husband. Because of our experience we prepared ourselves for the next two times I gave birth. And those times were absolutely perfect.
My story has a happy ending; all’s well that ends well. But it could’ve been better. So my call-to-action for you – #mywishformoms AND their support teams: take the classes, learn as much as you can about postpartum depression; be prepared for anything and have a plan with your partner. That person may be the one that has to pull you out.
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One of my favorite things about our house is all the natural light – which is why when we moved in Scott and I decided to only put blinds on 12 of the 30+ windows. One of my least favorite things? (side note: we are blessed to have the home we have and I love every inch of it, but I still have things I would love to improve – who doesn’t? It is ever evolving.) Because it’s a brand new house in a brand new neighborhood… it’s just like every single house in the neighborhood.
My design aesthetic (look at me using fancy words) is pretty eclectic –
I like a mix of brightly colored art, vintage accents, a monotone look paired with textural elements, modern and graphic touches – pretty much anything. I find things that I like and make them work anywhere I can at home (which is why I have a lot of things collected just waiting for the right spot to make sense). Themes and matchy-matchy just aren’t my thing and besides, I’ve found that if you collect the things that bring you joy (thank you, Marie Condo) they all end up meshing together perfectly.
And if you stick to what you love and avoid following what’s “on trend”, you’ll design a home that you’ll never grow tired of.
So while we did bring the first floor to a level of “complete” that makes it feel like home, I’m diving into each room individually starting with Little Girl’s room –
and it’s mostly because she is now potty trained and I don’t need a changing table anymore (stay-tuned: DIY changing table to dresser conversion). If it were up to Emily, it would be pink princess flower glitter ballerina trolls everything. We’ve decided to compromise on the design plan.
The starting point for my vision board is the Fusion Mineral paint color “little teapot”. This will be the color of her bed, the changing table-turned-dresser DIY, the cube bookshelf, and the step stool and I will closely match the wall/ceiling color to the furniture (yes, I paint ceilings). Em’s room is the smallest bedroom and having the light-monochromatic base color will help it feel light and open. From there, I will be keeping some of the existing elements, changing some elements (like the changing table), and adding some elements (the DIY princess canopy because #basic and I found the CUTEST felt potted plant that I’m in love with). Below is the information for the products in the vision board as well as a picture of Em’s room now. Come along with me as I dive into this project!